
Originally Posted by
Jonty Rhodes
Q, this post is really to thank you.
With October 2015 VB, I will be able to file for AOS starting October 1st. I can't say that I am not happy but for some reason, I think there are many other things in my life that have given me much more happiness. Q, this is because I listened to your advise and started concentrating more on the job that I held. I was frustrated due to GC wait. I came to US in December 2004, did my MPH on F-1, did my Internal Medicine Training for 3 years from 2007-2010 on H1B, couldn't get the fellowship due to H1B visa and started working in a Hospital. My hospital hired a new lawyer in 2010 and my PERM was delayed for a year and was filed in 2011. With HR3012 passing the House and rapid advancement of dates in 2012, I had started hoping that I would get GC soon. But then dates retrogressed. I became more frustrated as the fellowship seemed a distant dream. I got even more frustrated and started hating my job even though it is a pretty decent one. I actually let a promotion go because I was hoping that if I get a GC soon then I didn't have to commit to my hospital administration by accepting a promotion as they were asking for a 2 year commitment. Then the dates retrogressed even more and I kicked myself for letting that promotion go.
But then one day I read a post from Q where he had advised someone to pursue their life & career goals and keep GC as a secondary thing. It may sound dramatic to some but I felt that may be it was my enlightenment moment. I slowly started taking more interest in the committees that I was a part of. I started giving more time on my job. Today in 2 years, I have achieved much more in my current job and I am at a level where I don't care much if I don't get a fellowship and I don't care much if it takes me few more years to get a GC. I am working full time but on top, I have accepted a position of Medical Director of a new program that my hospital started. I am the Chief Physician Informaticist in my hospital and now working as a Deputy Chief Medical Information Officer on the inpatient side. And now, I have been asked to apply for Executive Medical Director for Acute Care by hospital administration. If I get that position, my current boss will be working under me. All this has happened in last 2 years and I have to heartily thank Q for that simple but effective advise.
I want to tell everyone that this is a fantastic forum and I have not only learned about immigration from here but I have learned much more about other peoples' struggles and started to appreciate my job, my family and many other things that I have. I know that it is not possible for everyone to enjoy their current jobs or move up the ladder, but hang in there my friends with a positive attitude and your time will come.
PS: BTW, we actually built a new house and my wife and my 5 year old enjoy it like anything. I was very resistant initially but I didn't want wait till I get GC which could still take many years.