In the current situation even your wife should not go to India as she might have to go for stamping, there have been numerous cases where spouses have been stuck on 221G due to the EVC model. In fact chances of making it in the EVC model require a good degree of luck. I would say that you have a fair chance in the next VB; last VB was a tsunami you are quite close now only 25 days to the next VB to come. On a personal note I and my wife could not attend her sister’s wedding because it kind of happened too fast in Nov when our own dates became current, my stamping is valid till Sep 2012 though. My suggestion to you would be to have your family travel only in an emergency if you are this close and on EVC model till you get EAD / AP in hand if you van be current next month. If the dates retrogress then it’s a risk worth taking for now just hope for the best in the next VB.