Path to Green Life of a First Gen Indian in the Land of Immigrants
Thanks all for your wishes. Finally I'll be able to shred the big box full of paperwork that I've been carrying with me like shackles that was getting longer and longer with every passing day. And now that I've tasted freedom with the "Welcome to the United States" message that I received in mail today, let me share my story while trying to stay anonymous. Hope it will help some of the GC hopefuls who are still waiting in this seemingly never-ending line.
I first came to the US 21 years ago with my first job abroad, after leaving college with an engineering degree and with just under 2 years of work experience in the field of Information Technology. I always aspired to live and work freely, home or abroad, and this seemed like the perfect opportunity for me to live my dreams. My H1B visa was sponsored by a small startup company in the California Bay Area that was still riding high on the Dotcom bubble, never to imagine what would happen next. And then the unimaginable happened, followed by 9/11. Many got laid off and many decided to move back to their home countries. I was one of them who got disillusioned by the instability of the job market, took a job with a big tech firm in India, and decided to move back in May 2003, exactly 3 years from the day I first landed on this Land of Promise.
Then I got married, bought a house and was about to permanently settle down in my hometown when the project I was assigned to required me to move to UK on a short term. So I made my way to UK where our first and only child was born, and we lived there for about 2 years before the project ended and we had to move back to India. This was the time when I started getting the 3-year itch with my job ? I felt dissatisfied with the overall work environment in India and how folks in IT were made to work like high paid laborers and being asked to move from one place to another on a short notice. Also, from my short stint in the Indian job market it appeared to me that spending long hours at work and making friends with the right people, and not necessarily work either hard or smart, is the only way to move up the Indian corporate ladder.
So in early 2007 I made a long thought out decision to try and move back to US. I took phone interviews with few of the consultancy firms who were still sponsoring H1B visas, picked one and decided to go for it. Fortunately, I got picked in the visa lottery and my NJ-based company invited me to work for them starting in 2008. That was when I took the plunge for a second time, got into a long term project contract for a large Life Insurance company, and settled down in New Jersey with my wife and my 3-year old daughter.
The very next year my company sponsored me for my Green Card and that was the beginning of my GC journey that lasted 12 long and arduous years, with some respite in 2012 when our dates got current for a brief period to allow me switch to EAD. This change of status presented me with a unique opportunity to join a Fortune 20 Big-Tech firm, where I stepped into a Manager of Data Analytics role that I am still enjoying to this date. Meanwhile, I bought a house and moved into a good neighborhood, of course at the expense of high taxes and living costs.
All these years, being in Adjustment of Status, I was more or less free to travel abroad with an Advance Parole without worrying for visa stamping at local consulates. It also allowed me move freely in the job market and make full use of my market value. The only thing that has handicapped me is the fact that I was unable to apply for in-state tuition in NJ due to my non-permanent resident status. Similarly, getting student loans was a hassle which required a guarantor in the form of a PR or a US citizen. Nevertheless, I decided to pursue an MBA degree and got admitted to a top school in the region. Of course, the immigration system was never fair for us Indians who were, and still are, suffering the most due to the per-country cap. Waiting 12 years in line for a permanent resident card is insane for any immigration category, and it is more so when you are in a high-paying employment based category that requires an advanced degree and/or other highly specialized skillset to qualify. In my mind a country?s immigration system should be fair to all and it should reward high-skilled workers by making immigration easier for them in order to attract the best and the brightest from across the world irrespective of their race, religion and culture.
Would I make the same decision of moving to the US if I had the crystal ball back in the year 2000? Absolutely! As I explained, I did go back and tried to settle down in India, but failed to do so. So however long it took, I do not repent this decision for a moment. Does it pain me to see my near and dear ones getting old and vulnerable, and some even dying in a far-off land while I am busy with my career? Sure, and even more so in the post-pandemic world where your life can change in the blink of an eye. That?s the reason why I get on video calls with them every other day just to see them and hear them talk. But even with the close ties that I have with my parents and my family back in India, I have learnt to live and enjoy this way of life like any other first generation immigrant who are here in America for a better life, not just for themselves, but for their kids and their future generations.
I am looking forward to the newly found freedom of being considered a ?permanent? resident, and I wish to make full use of it, whether in paying for college tuition, in refinancing my mortgage with better rates, or by traveling freely to other parts of the world, including more frequent travels to see my parents without the pain of waiting in line for immigration checks at the Port of Entry. At a social level, I would like to get more involved in day to day life in the USA, speaking up for an inclusive culture and for a free and fair immigration system in any shape and form that I?m able to, while hoping to become an American Citizen some day in the not too distant future!