Originally Posted by
Turbulent_Dragonfly
Since we are all anonymous here (hopefully), I can safely tell my story hopefully without sounding like an insufferable braggart! My wife who is also back from India but I met here, was adopted into an extremely prosperous family from her own original family who did not want another girl as they had two already. But due to different circumstances, she has lost both set of parents and left with literally uncountable fixed assets, mainly land. Neither she nor our children or our great grand children will need to work a single day to be honest. The few times that we have gone down as a family to visit that really famous richest temple in India down South :-) her influence without even having lived in India for more than two decades basically used to part the ocean of people there so that we can go in and out quickly. Sometimes I used to feel like Hugh Grant in Notting Hill walking around with her :-D.
But you know the downside? She literally cannot set foot in India because of all the death threats against her as a sole heir. Her original father was very high up in the state police and she has been able to survive just because of their protection during the two weeks she sometimes is forced to visit every few years for some formalities. When we had our wedding, there was a police cordon around and my friends and family were wondering wtf was going on as I have never told them the complete story and don't plan to. It's six years since my parents have seen their grandchildren in person because they are too old to travel and I no longer wished to put her life at risk traveling alone.
In any case, we live a very normal, happy and blissfully anonymous life here in a very medium sized home with no frills, growing our own vegetables and teaching our children the value of family and friends over anything else. Money ain't everything or the the only thing, but the only place where I am pragmatic is saying yes money, if you have it and properly manage does help. It takes out a lot of stress in everyday life but don't make it a pursuit. We both earn enough here to support ourselves, so we plan to anonymously write off my wife's holdings in India to various charities that we know are legit, especially those that look out for the welfare of destitute children.
Alright, that's about it, I will get back to predictions in my next post ;-)