Originally Posted by
sportsfan33
Honestly, I don't see any hint of even a slightest offense to anyone.
Congratulations on getting married.
I am not an expert on marriage based GCs, so you might want to consult an attorney. From a high level logistical perspective, getting the GC through your spouse is a no brainer for me. Your journey can end right now, and the additional cost is worth it in my opinion. Also given the recent outlook, as of now, August 2009 has about 50% chance of being current. If this unpredictability and the wait times end for you now, you should go for it.